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A Day In The Life Of ”A Gentleman For Hire”

A day in the life of a gentleman for hire is an independent submission courtesy of Simon Benn from Gentlemen 4 Hire

Published Wed 11th Nov 2020
By itsAdult / Tales from the Porn Side

A Day In The Life Of ”A Gentleman For Hire”

 


Male escorts have been equally stigmatized in ordinary society and glamorized in Hollywood. For most of history, it was believed that the escort profession was a preserve of females. Whichever side of glamour or stigma you take, the fact is that there are handsome and talented men willing to monetize their personality, charm and looks to earn a very good living.

While many male escort websites feature rows and rows of chiselled young men, it does take more than that to become successful in this relatively new profession. In this article, we take a look into the day to day life of a gentleman for hire and provide insights that will blow your mind and perhaps help you succeed as one.

 

What is the Typical Routine?

While gentlemen for hire are normal human beings who have to sleep, eat, go to the gym, and all that ordinary stuff, one thing they do not have is a conventional routine. The hours one is expected to work vary a lot regardless of whether one is working as a freelancer or for an agency.

For the most part, one is expected to set their hours, even though exceptional customer service is expected. Any good escort will work to accommodate the needs of their clientele, and hence they will typically be much more like a personal trainer than an accountant in terms of flexibility.

The range of possibilities in a day is unlimited. It could be anything from walking with the client on the beach in the morning, then having a romantic dinner at a rustic restaurant before having a nightcap at a five-star hotel. Nights could involve going to a local club for some dancing or karaoke if the client needs to let loose and relax. Some clients will also hire gentlemen for special occasions such as charity events, business functions, or charity events.

It is not uncommon for some dates to last as little as two hours while some can last up to three days. There have also been instances where gentlemen that have been invited to spend up to a fortnight on a getaway to some exotic island.

 

What it Takes to Be an Escort

The life of a gentleman for hire can be quite glamorous and luxurious. You get to go to some of the most exclusive events, visit exotic holiday destinations in Southern Europe, Asia, and the Caribbean, and hang out at the best entertainment spots across the world. However, not just anyone can be an escort as one may need to adopt a particular personality or adapt to different clientele.

While it is a common misconception that one needs to have the chiselled Greek-god look to become a male escort, nothing could be further from the truth. The range of client tastes ranges from model type young men between the ages of 35 to 47 to men as old as 60 or as young as 20. The range of personality can range from the caring funny and warm to a challenging, mysterious, and mischievous James Bond lookalike.

Apart from personality, a gentleman for hire will also need to be well-groomed and well in tune with current trends. A great sense of what is happening in pop culture and fashion trends go a long way to ensuring that he dresses to be as attractive as possible. This means reading everything from the likes of People Magazine, Sports Illustrated, and GQ to get a feel for what is dated and what is current in the world of fashion and grooming. Nobody wants a gentleman for hire that dresses like a slob.

Given that an escort may be asked to go to grand openings, games, and parties where having an intelligent conversation may be part of the job, they need to be up to date with the gossip and current events. However, one does not need to spend their day watching ESPN, Fox News, or Buzz feed, but they need to know enough to keep up with the conversation and provide insightful opinions when required.

 

How Much of the Work Involves Getting Down

There is a lot of stereotype about gentlemen of hire being some kind of sex worker. However, sexual favours are never part of the deal, and most agencies and freelancers do not even list such a package. Nonetheless, when one is out with a client, and there is a connection just like with a normal date, then nothing is out of the question as long as there is consent between both parties.

Many women that hire gentlemen as escorts have various reasons for doing so. Some need a partner who can pay them the attention they crave. Some women just want to get away from a dull and unavailable partner that cannot spend an hour without reaching for the TV remote. Others just need someone to have a decent conversation with or maybe someone with good looks to flaunt with at the office party or wedding.

As a gentleman for hire, one can spend hours having conversations with their date or their colleagues or even parents. Still, the most important skill one needs to be successful in the business is a listening and empathetic ear. Most clients just need someone to listen and not butt in with solutions and suggestions unless required to do so.

 

Do Gentlemen for Hire Get Attached to Clients

While connections between escorts and clients can sometimes develop, it is best to keep these relationships professional and build a relationship outside of work. The real professionals know how to keep their professional relationships separate from their personal lives. They can be intimate and loving and take care of their clients while still having a fulfilling life with their significant other. That being said, the gentleman for hire is just a human being that makes a good living providing much-needed services.

 

Article courtesy of Simon Benn at Gentlemen4Hire gentlemen4hireuk@gmail.com

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