Tales from the Porn Side

When a model from the past comes back to haunt you in the future.

Thinking about getting into porn? This is one way an ex model tried to erase her past after being sexually blackmailed by a colleague at work.

Published Sun 27th Nov 2016
By itsAdult / Tales from the Porn Side

When a model from the past comes back to haunt you in the future.

Oh the trials and tribulations of producing porn. This shit aint easy I can tell you that.

I was on my way out for the afternoon yesterday when I received a call and immediately recognised the voice speaking to me but asked to have it confirmed who it was anyway. Lets just say it was a popular female model from back in the early millenium. I have to say I was pleasantly surprised to hear from her until she asked if I could remove everything I have ever shot of her from my website.

I haven’t heard from this woman (who shall remain nameless) for over10 years and found out she left the adult industry to study psychology and went onto doing that as a professional career. Over a week ago she got a call late at night about her appearing in a porn dvd and that she should, just for a quiet life, simply resign and slip back into the relative obscurity of being unemployed. So now she is out of a job and back where she started, dancing in a strip club to make a living.

Now don’t get me wrong. I got to know a lot of girls intimately in those early years producing porn and i get no joy in hearing a girl has lost a good job she has invested herself in for years to get busted down in social ranking for doing porn 10 years ago. The other thing I’d be interested to know is: How did it come to light when she only ever worked under a stage name anyway? I think someone was up late at night surfing the internet for porn and must have been digging around to find and recognise her. What she did in her past has no bearing on her future and think she has good grounds to reverse it and get reinstated or raise all kinds of hell in the media, take it to court and sue her employers for unfair dismissal but even thats too late now since she resigned already. Lets face it, 10 years before working for them is good enough grounds for compensation, but she doesn’t want this because it would mean her friends and family finding out.

If that was me, I would have reversed it back on the person and blown their cover for even looking at porn to find it in the first place but she is not me. If losing her job was the sucker punch the hefty right hook was yet to come when she told me that her partner of several years and father to their 3 year old child had no knowledge of her porno past. So now he knows and you can bet he is not happy about it either.

So where does that leave me in this equation? Should I just wave a magic wand and erase everything of her from my hard drives as if she never existed? If only the answer to that was so simple. Given the fact she not only worked for me but several other people and did many shoots it would not make a blind bit of difference if we deleted everything in existence with her on it because after all that was said and done, she wasn’t even busted for being on my site in the first place. She was found out for content she did for me not even available on my site.

In this age of file sharing there is absolutely nothing I nor any body she has worked for can do to stop this and frankly she has been found out already so its not going to unerase it from the monds of those who know about it. I explained this to her and understood she was’t going to budge in her determination to get me to change my mind, explaining she is depressed and suicidal. That makes me feel really shitty but I remain resolute in the fact that she was ok doing what she did at the time , taking my money then disappearing into obscurity, don’t call or write or keep in touch with an occasional hello and here she is 10 years later expecting me to erase her porn history with a magical red button laying on the guilt trip of "How much m,ore money do you need to make out of me?" to good effect. My conscience is clear. I have paid her for work in cash back in the day knowing full well that me or any others pulling the plug on her past is not going to make a difference unless she can get the internet search engines and torrent sites to remove the files as well. That aspect is not cheap and is time consuming too

I also remember she was one of those girls that was already in the business when I met her overseas in Amsterdam the first time so I didn’t run my usual line of asking why was she doing it (porn) because she was doing it already. Why should I anyway? I'm no ones moral guardian. She should have thought about it way back then but I’ll give her this much. No one anticipated the internet would be as big as it is today and theres no escaping from your past nowadays. I’m just sad that it had come back to ruin her life and if i couldnt do anything to help. I certainly wasnt able to remove the content thats been in circulation for 10 years already

So while I might have pissed her off and now the bad guy, as far as i can see I have done nothing wrong. Why cant people just take responsibility for their own actions?

Her next atempt was to get my site shuit down through a solicitor citing the videos were for private use but I pipped that one by providing proof of model releases, IDs and health certificates. So now she was out of pocket with her solicitoras well.

She did threaten to continue legal action and wouldnt stop until she had destoyed me. By now I was becoming sheer bloody minded about it and was prepared to see it through to the bitter end but alas it never came and I never heard from her again. 

Shame really as I was pleased to hear from her. Too bad it was under such shitty circumstances. I gues youre wondering if she was a lot nicer about it, would i have been more obliging? No. Not really. Business is business. i didnt pay for the content to use in a limited time. Producers often pay the talent on the day and dont make good on their investment until months later anyway.

The moral to this story is, dont do today what you will regret tomorrow. Even if the internet wasnt responsible, just being on video alone was enough to get you outed back in those wild crazy days. 

Source: ClubOneEyedJack

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